My sisters have both been very supportive and understanding. At first my older sister wasnt but then she became aware of several of her own problems and that made her a lot more empathetic. My younger sister is carrying a heavy load. During the past few years Ive seen her slipping a little and we've started talking more about it.

I could never admit it to my dad. At last a few years ago I told him because I felt I was doing well enough to talk with him about it. His reply was 'some people never survive that depression'. It was enough that I knew he wasnt judging.

My mom just kinda looked out the window. No comment but she didnt try to tell me I was wrong to feel sad. She has her own troubles.

I had one good non therapist friend who, after 20 some years of depression said, 'man, im sorry you felt that way.' What a relief to hear that!

Thanks for this Sivol. I think we need to look at the positive things to dig our way out.