When i was still living with my husband he would bring me a bottle of wine whenever i was particularly low and say "here you are this always makes you feel better"! True it did take away some of the pain but he was half the problem anyway. Also i kept asking him not to do that since i disliked using alcohol as a crutch and liked it way too much and was really worried about adding alcoholism to my list of problems. He just never did get it :-(