Here, see if this helps. Maybe e-mail the people running some websites and see if they have dealt with a problem like yours?

http://www.adult-adhd.com/medication.html

Can your doctor call the ADHD something else and use a med that also used to treat whatever else he calls it? (OCD, anxiety, whatever). Sometimes meds work for other problems so he can say you have the other problem and use the med "correctly" for the actual problem you have.