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Originally Posted by ShaunaTheShy
I'm sorry you had to go through that. 
He's trying to make it up to me with ice-cream. It made me want to laugh at his stupidity but I didn't and inside I was pretty much thinking he's an idiot if he thinks ice-cream is supposed to make me feel better...I wouldn't dare say it though. It amazes me how fast and easy he thinks it'll be for me to get over this. If he hits me again I'm calling everyone in my family who live in the next city over to see if someone can come pick me up because I'm not gonna deal with "It was an accident" again. I agree with what you say about the kids as-well. I grew up with a drunk and abusive father..he verbally, mentally and physically abused me and my mother but treated my brother like a God. I wouldn't EVER want me and my kids to go through what my mother and I went through before my dad got Cancer. He died in 2010 but I still have the horrible memories... |
I would tell him ice cream isnt going to make up for it. I would see he needs to work out his problems and go to anger management or something. I would also tell him if he hurts you again you are calling an the police and leaving him. Make sure you have a place to go too if things get nasty. Personally I think the guy sucks and you deserve someone better. It sounds like you had to deal with a lot of a**holes in your life. I hope things improve or you have the strength to walk away from a bad releationship. I wish you luck.