LovelaceF- yep, I have gotten told (after me being completely faithful for 20 yrs) he is "afraid" to take me anywhere because he thinks I will pick up some guy and abandon him. I have NEVER cheated on him during our marriage. I think it's just an excuse not to go certain places with me. The one time a couple yrs ago, we were both invited out to a bar by one of his female friends. I asked him early in the week if we were going. He said no, he didn't want to. Flash forward to the day of the invite, he announces to me he is going by himself. He admitted he didn't want me to go with him. He purposely waited until it was too late to get a caregiver for my daughter so that I would have to stay home. But, you know, he is NEVER wrong in what he does. I am just getting so angry thinking about all the crap I have put up with for too long.....