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zombiette said:
hey,
i'm not a parent, but i have to say i think the idea of talking to ur son and his friend together sounds good...it's not to unusual for teenage guys to look at porn (i've got an 18 y.o. brother, he went thru a phase a bit like that a couple of years ago, but my parents just ignored it, so it's good that ur planning to talk to ur son) but i can understand how u'd find it disturbing!

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Thanks for the reply........ we are going to talk with them this coming week (and) I find it upsetting (not disturbing) for if you read through my first post carefully you will see that I havealready gone thru a porn addiction struggle with my husband and it almost destroyed our marriageand his ability to see me as beautiful after all that his eyes had seen - and his looking started as an innocent teen boy finding his dads porn, plus I find porn viewing upsetting due to my own sexual abuse issues, for all four men had a porn problem which lead to them acting it out on me.

Porn is not as innocent and non-harmful to others as many people want or wish to believe, it is just an excuse for a cheap thrill of the eyes and sexual excitement to the physical body without a personal commitment to any one.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -