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Originally Posted by geez
You have a problem with sexual abuse so how where you able to 'frame it' to not put that in the same category as sex? Intellectually I get it and I'm more than frustrated that I'm not 'getting it' emotionally. Fear is still there.  |
Ditto. I think it takes so much longer to get it emotionally. I'm so frustrated and impatient with myself about this at this point. I know with my brain that sex can be awesome and fun and something that makes you closer to your partner, but every time I have it I feel freaked out and uncomfortable. My T has told me a couple of times that he thinks it takes a lot of trust and love and time, and I just have no patience.