i deal with this all the time. anxiety because there's not a notification when i'm expecting one, or because there ARE notifications and i just don't want to see that i've offended someone (unless i meant to) or someone is just being a jerk. i don't mind people disagreeing. but the presentation means a lot, you know? sigh...

i expect people to say something to make me feel bad about something good that's been happening to me...like my exercising...i haven't told my parents because i expect them to react negatively. like, "you should have spent that money on something useful!" or, "you're not going to be able to stick with it." or, if i do, and i lose weight but i'm not toned (because i won't be again without surgery), "you don't look like you've lost weight..."

but my parents are assholes...

and ignore my mini rant, please...sorry...