> just seem to no nur difrent w/out knowign anythign abuot u r met u befoer........................dotn get it..........................
liek does beads have a sign on her head r back r what??!!

I think I understand what you're saying -- people identify us as different. In my case it' s not always immediate, but eventually the pie hits the fan. I found for things like going to the store, just standing up straight and wearing tidy clothes makes a huge difference. For superficial situations like that, if you just play a role you can usually fit in. It takes some effort at first.

My problem, though is with people you are supposed to get to know over time, like co-workers and classmates. There always ends up being some unbridgeable gap. Nothing can develop beyond superficial it seems. That really hurts.