I too would be hesitant to believe a t that told me that, let alone three of them. Sally gave you some very good advice Black or White. I do not know much about dream therapy yet, I have done some in my own therapy and like someone else said dreams are not always that clear. They have hidden meanings from your subconcious.
I know that to dream of being abused means you are feeling victimised or taken advantage of. You said it was a man but you didn't want to turn around and see him. Do you know who this man is in your real life? Those he pose any threat to you?