Before I did laser hair removal on my lower legs, I used Nair on them may be 5-10 occasions. It was messy as hell. It's smell was extremely, extremely disgusting.

And that was just on lower legs. A horrifying experience. On the whole body?? Chest, arms, upper legs - all the parts of the male body that are covered with hair? You ought to be kidding.

What those observations mean for you is that your husband is very, very serious about having same sex relationships at the moment. One does not decide to use Nair on his whole body out of a desire to have sheer fun. He is very motivated. Somebody in his life likes hairless male bodies, and it is clearly not you, right?

Are you prepared to live with a bi-sexual man? I am not saying that you should or should not be because people are different in this regard - I am asking you whether you are ready for this sort of relationship ahead. It is clearly a change; when you married him, you were under the impression that he was straight; are you ready to handle the change?

If he is only 30, then even if he is successful proving his disability and I doubt that he will be, for reasons Perna listed, his SSDI amount will be puny because he has not worked enough. After he takes money he will need for Nair, weed, skydiving, motorcycle accessories, and other necessary, vital, and completely non-negotiable expenses, what will he contribute towards the household? Nothing.

Plus, he is beyond crazy. "a hidden spy camera that was used on me" is seriously crazy.

So be thankful that you have not had any children with him!! He wouldn't contribute money, effort, time, anything towards rearing children together. You would be doing everything by yourself. And when, if you work all day long?