I totally agree. And sometimes it sets back what progress I have made when people will tell me to "move on, get over it." It's so frustrating and hurtful when others refuse to recognize how much hard work you have done to get to the fairly functional place where you are.
I don't want to hurt as much as I do or experience all the problems associated with PTSD. But I have found that most people would rather ignore your pain than try to have a little compassion.
But I will continue to work to move forward regardless if they think my symptoms and problems are real or not.
I believe we will get better if we don't give up trying. I know that's easier said than done. And it seems to take forever. But stay on these forums and you will find honest compassion and understanding.