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Old Feb 15, 2013, 01:51 AM
Anonymous33170
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hi, it sounds a bit like you have self esteem problems. i think you might want to see what your personal emotional needs are and focus on them before focussing on having a relationship. 20 is very young to worry about these things. you are still evolving and ao are your needs. i would try to be friends with a potential bf first and get comfortable around him. you dont need to pressure yourself to 'mature' or change yourselfto fulfil the needs of your next boyfriend. a healthy relationship in my view is one where you are yorself and where giving back to your partner feels natural. if you have a t it might be worth exploring what your needs are in a relationship, in order to figure out who can give you that. dont worry too much about the rest now. i am sure that once you find someone who is right for you, youre going to be able to return feelings. hugs