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You've looked up the sites on sex addiction so you have knowledge on the subject - but doesn't necessarily mean he will go the way you might anticipate. Perhaps the important thing is for him to know he is loved and accepted for who he is, and try to lead him to an understanding of what can happen at times....

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Thanks for the reply..... My first post was not written so much because I am afraid of what my son might become if he continues to look at porn (even though the thoughts are there in me), but it was rather a release from all that is inside of me on this subject based on my own past sexual abuse and the porn issue with my husband..... I wrote what I did out of need to VENT so that I could deal with this matter based on my son only and not from my own inner fears / wounds.
AND - to see what the other adults felt about the consequences that my husband and I have came up with concerning the issue at hand.... for this is the second time that my son has brought porn home with him from his friends house, and we have talked to him about the matter after the first time - but now we feel that some actions needs to be taken to get our point across.

I am still waiting to hear back from any one that wishes to share what they think about the consequences we have decided to set into action.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -