its gonna be ok. its definitely not the end of the world. my dad is the principal of the local irish school where i live and there are a lot of children with ADD and ADHD. and the help they are recieving in the school is doing them wonders. i also have a lot of friends with ADD and ADHD and their just the same as everyone else. its either to do with the medication they are recieving or the help their gettin but they all seem to be doing very well. so your son will be grand and so will you. you have the strength to cope with this. and from what ive seen on other posts throughout the site the people here will do all they can to help you. unfortunately i dont have any good advice on the subject but i know that other people on the site will.

Good luck and i hope you found this at least a little bit helpfull,
eoghan