I am glad you are reaching out to the forum, this is a great place for support. I am sorry that things are feeling so hopeless right now, but you must put a little gas in the tank to keep the car running. A little nourishment for the body can help to brighten your spirit. I am sorry your H is not being helpful , I am flabbergasted at his comment.... speechless As for T reach out and be honest, they can't help fix things if we don't level with them. You are the mother and that gives you power, it is your house too and you shouldn't feel like an outcast in your own home. You should feel safe and comfortable in your home. Keep posting, someone here will always listen and give you feed back!