Abby this sounds exactly like my XT. I think some of her issues got messed up with mine and it felt like Therapy was causing more harm then good. I'm with many others in saying perhaps you should try another T. One who can contain your emotions and keep their issues out of it. Going to another T was the best thing I could have done for myself and I also went into knowing I would have parental transference and making sure that new T could handle that.