Since the hookers have been so helpful overall, I would maybe poll them (if you can) to get their opinions on whether you should disclose your encounters with them during your subsequent relationships. They may have special insight and experience that we here simply do not have. They may have seen guys in your situation already. So would not hurt to inquire.

But the general rule that seems to emerge is that you should first look for safety. If you are about to disclose your past to your new woman friend, is it safe? Does she deserve your trust? Can you see her turning around and using your past against you?

There is also a golden principle in data security that applies to your situation - sensitive data should only be disclosed on a need-to-know basis. Your data is definitely sensitive, because you have been unable to find socially acceptable relationships with the opposite sex without relying on monetary exchanges. To let somebody know about it exposes your vulnerability. So there should be a need-to-know basis for disclosure and you should be able to trust that your woman friend won't ridicule you, be horrified, and so on and so forth.