I have been offered a great position which I would have to relocate for.
The problem is that my girlfriend cannot move due to having her house, child and business here.
Four months into our relationship we decided to get engaged and after 2 months she gave me the ring back because she felt that she was holding me back.
Girlfriend is 39 and I am 32

We have recently been trying to work on our issues and become one again but I am going back and forth in my mind as to what to do?
She loves me with all of her heart and does not want to lose me. She is emotionally broken due to me not being able to decide-Job or Love.

I could certainly use this income that is offered but at the same time, I would feel guilty if I leave her because i don't know if I will ever find someone who loves me as much as she does.

Any advice would be appreciated but i know that it'sy ultimate decision

Thanks