Hi, Everyone! I came on here looking for support, but not really expecting much. I am really happy to have all of you. I know he needs help. His main trigger is his jealousy and insecurity...both completely irrational. I am not talking about a little jealousy...I am talking major, over the top insane jealousy. For example....I offered him a drink of peach snapps one friday night after we had had a busy night and I thought we could spend some time together. His body went rigid immediately and I knew something was wrong. He was thinking, "who have you been kissing that tastes like peach snapps that you want me to taste like that." WHAT? Completely irrational and I was hurt and insulted. His mother is visiting us for a week now. I'm hoping that she can help, but at the same time I know part of this is her fault. Thanks for listening. me