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Originally Posted by healed84
I know I should 't care what other people think,.. BUT!! Don't you all think it is leaving marriage, just b/c one of the spouses is unhappy... I don't know, wrong, irresponsible, selfish?? I don't know!!! Like there needs to be a real reason??
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Healed... "unhappy" sounds subjective so only the person can know... but for me I've been married 24 years... some have been pretty great...some have been tolerable... some have been horrible... and the cycle continues.. I personally don't believe in a set of "acceptable reasons" for divorce... but I'll say the same thing to you that I said to a friend the other night... IMO "happy"/ "unhappy" are feelings and feelings can be fleeting and have highs and lows... marriage is based on more than feelings.. but only you can know if your relationship is based on common ground, beliefs, desires, goals, futures...etc... IMO the feeling can come and go but if the common stuff is there it will see you through till the feelings come around again... sorry if that was too much...