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Old Feb 15, 2013, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted by geez View Post
You have a problem with sexual abuse so how where you able to 'frame it' to not put that in the same category as sex? Intellectually I get it and I'm more than frustrated that I'm not 'getting it' emotionally. Fear is still there.
What Sannah said. Intellect does not work with this. I have to resolve it emotionally. It was an emotional experience---scared me so badly and subjectively made me afraid to trust my body, my feelings, and my sexuality.

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Thanks for this!
geez, Sannah