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Old Feb 15, 2013, 09:39 PM
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My aunt was my primary abuser. I don't celebrate her birthday. I am a "bad kid" too. (joke) But I don't love her anymore. You know why? Because she did not love me. She used me.

And no one deserves to be treated like that!

You did nothing to deserve being smacked around, dumped, black eyes, etc. A good parent, I am learning does NOT do those things! No matter how angry he is!

You have a right to feel how ever you need to! Feeling something or nothing! What ever you need to feel!

Carol
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Thanks for this!
H3rmit, Silent_Tears_17