ok so you have had sex w/ 24 working girls. Were any of these 24 visits w/ the same girl or all girls different.

I don't know that I would disclose to a close female partner that they were working girls. Maybe just that you have been w/ 24 different people. Thats not the most desirable trait I look for in a man but on the other hand this day in time that is not the worst I have heard of. That's why I asked if it was 24 different girls or 4 different girls 6 times each. that makes a difference. Then you've only been w/ 4 people.

If I were truely looking at becoming a partner in a serious committed relationship, I'd be sure to tell that person why you chose that path and how many times it occurred. Be sure to explain when was the last time, maybe that you did seek T afterwards to deal w/ this issue. Those life choices do not mean there is no hope.

You have learned some valuable lessons apparently and that could not have been learned w/ 24 encounters w/ the same person. I'm not saying this is the path I would have choose or have wanted my H to choose before me. But him having been w/ one person and me two our experience between the two of us is poor. If one of us knew what in the world we were doing it might have actually helped a lot. That is not my preferred method for finding out the "How to's" of things.

I think you are being to hard on yourself.