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Originally Posted by manioso
My fiancee left for Australia a way back and we kinda a had a crisis of sorts, how to cope with each other being like 5000 miles apart, thats a nice task.
Two weeks after I broke up with her, she married a local fellow, on whom she had her eyes stuck before.
Haven't had a close relationship with anyone since that. And not planning to.
So yeah, feel where you're coming through. I feel such an unimaginable hatred for womanhood, that I really doubt, I'll get any children nor would I hang myself in on a relationship. I've dealt with it on my head and I'm on par with it. It kinda gives you a soothing feeling, since there's no more trying nor mind games.
There are points for being a hermit, I guarantee it; esp. since pets are allowed.
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Well there are definite pros to being single. I can do what I want and not have to check with anyone before doing something or going somewhere. I just feel like in my spare time, I want to relax and have "me time"
I feel like it's kind of exhausting being around someone and trying to act normal. For example:
I was seeing a guy for a couple months and we only got to see each other on the weekends because of our work schedules. I found that every weekend I felt obligated to spend friday and saturday nights with him and I started to resent it because I wanted to just relax and be alone.
It seems everyone else wants to be with someone else, they are "needy" Why can't I be normal?? I guess it does have it's pros, I don't feel depressed on V Day because I am glad to be single, but I feel like I will be like this forever. I want to have more kids someday, but its never gonna happen by the looks of it!