I hate the idea of goals. I've always felt they set me up for. failure. But what I want is:

to find a new T -- I've been trying and have been unsuccessful.

to move out of my apartment (maybe buy a house) into a place that has some kind of a yard so that I can get a dog again.

to get some RL friends and a social life

I'm past my prime, but I'd still like to have a significant other.