Well there are definite pros to being single. I can do what I want and not have to check with anyone before doing something or going somewhere. I just feel like in my spare time, I want to relax and have "me time"
I feel like it's kind of exhausting being around someone and trying to act normal. For example:
I was seeing a guy for a couple months and we only got to see each other on the weekends because of our work schedules. I found that every weekend I felt obligated to spend friday and saturday nights with him and I started to resent it because I wanted to just relax and be alone.
It seems everyone else wants to be with someone else, they are "needy" Why can't I be normal?? I guess it does have it's pros, I don't feel depressed on V Day because I am glad to be single, but I feel like I will be like this forever. I want to have more kids someday, but its never gonna happen by the looks of it!