I am so skinny that I feel like constantly eating. People tell me "where does it all go?"

It affects work, since I lack stamina to do any real job for 8 hours.

It affects dating, since I have performance issues in the bedroom and when out on a date I eat like a horse while the poor girl is munching on her "salad". lol!!

It affects social life, I have trouble speaking up in groups and generally have no friends or talk to people.. because of my physical insecurities.

All I ever do is watch food shows, stay home and cook and eat, and dream about the buffet. No joke, I've had 3 dreams so far about the all-u-can-eat buffet. It's sooo good.. I feel sooo happy and at home there!! It's funny when I go to one of those chinese buffets, I spend hours there and after 6 plates the chinese women give me that look and usually say "finish??" lol.

Yes, I've tried the gym and weights thing, and various other fitness routines. And weight gain powders. All I got was a gut from all that, and no muscle or upper body weight. So basically I look like a pregnant but starving Ethiopian.

Can you help or advise?


-30 year old Male binge eater