Melisa, Hy husband suffers from ADD and let me tell you, He can really enjoy life. I wanted to give you an adult look at this thing.
ADD is sometimes what it makes a person so special, outgoing, fun to be around and prolific... yes you hear me right. If he finds out what he is good at and he likes it, he'll be great at it.
Don't worry, It'l be fine. Do what you have to do as a mom but the rest, time only can say!
~hugs your way~