I usually feel a bit better when I work out what I am feeling with someone, but I feel that people are afraid to listen, or do not want to listen. I did seek professional help when I was younger for about a year, but after telling my therapist that I was molested, I was not comfortable with him anymore, and I stopped going. I felt like things were getting better then, but the past couple of years, I feel like things are getting worse everyday. I am finally to the point where I am unmotivated, and would rather lay in bed and cry, or think about the future. It is better being in my room alone than being out in the world with people who do not listen, and people who do not care. I am really glad that there are people on here who will listen, and I will listen to them too. Even though I am troubled, I really am a great listener, and I really care about people. Thank you very much.
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Originally Posted by adam_k
I usually feel better when I work out what I am feeling with someone. I found talking with someone who understand it helps. I think if we wore our emotions on our sleeves it would be easier for people to know when we need a hug and a shoulder to cry on. There are a lot of people in this forum who have felt as you do. There are people here that will listen to you.
I found a psychologist when I was younger that helped me. She was a compassionate and non judgmental voice for me to work out what was going on. Have you thought about seeking professional help? Are things really bad for you now?
This is a good community with a lot of smart people who have dealt with a lot of life problems and mental illnesses. I hope you find support and feel less alone.
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