Bottom line? The ones I've told have bolted. The ones I haven't stayed until I got rid of them.

It what I've come to expect. I don't talk about it.

It makes me sad, but I just don't think most men know what to do with the information.

I think when a man doesn't know what to do, or gets confused, or can't fix a situation, they get upset.

They can't deal with their own upset AND mine at the same time.

Of course, some just don't want "damaged" goods. It's just not worth it to them. They just can't see that I'm a person.

Que sera sera non?