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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
. When I told him, he started to cry. I was honestly confused.  Then I was deeply touched. He was crying FOR ME.  I could not cry for me, but he was. |
I am glad this touched you. But this is the sort of thing that just brings to mind how different all the experiences are for different people and how the lumping of it into an idea is where I think things can go amiss. I would have left anyone who cried for me. (I am not criticizing you or your H - I am happy it was a good thing for you). And I even know people would have been trying to be kind, sensitive, supportive or whatever. I would experience such a reaction as none of those things.