I have a question while we are on this subject. I have not mentioned to the marriage counselor my husband and I anything about the sexual abuse. I do not consider it relevant. I also did not mentioned the dissociation because I do not consider it relevant, especially now when it happens so rarely and almost never around my husband. My husband brought the dissociation up because apparently he thinks it is relevant and it affects me. The MC seemed frustrated at me because I didn't "disclose" this apparently vital information earlier.

So, I guess what I'm wondering is how relevant do you think being sexually abused is in a relationship? Especially if it does not affect your sex life.