I have the opposite problem, I guess. I don't really like being alone. I'm a writer (most of the time) and I work in a coffee shop to be around other people. But I'm beginning to think I'm just really bad at reading people since I've asked out a couple of guys in recent time and ... negatives. I think my big question, though, is when do you TELL that other person about your mental illness? I've been hospitalized twice and that tends to scare people off for the most part. I'm pretty stable now, but that's no guarantee I've learned. So what do you think? When do I tell?