I swear I get so sick of someone whining and moaning and metaphorically stamping their foot in rage about the same thing OVER AND OVER and rejecting all advice, all suggestions, all thoughts about how to reframe the issue. I have told a couple of friends that they know what I think about the issues and it does me no good to repeat myself, and it's time to poo or get of the pot. Decide to leave, and do it, or decide to stay, and do it. In either event, stop whining. Sometimes I have to tell myself this as well. I have tried to censor myself on here more so I don't end up making the same complaint about my H over and over.