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Originally Posted by Harley47
Hi there, and welcome to PC.
No...whatever happened is absolutely NOT your fault...not by any means at all. I am assuming your brother was older?
Understand, you're looking back at events that took place when you were 11 (with no true comprehension of sexuality) with the knowledge and understanding of an adult woman. You were unable then to make the full range of rational decisions that you are now. You cannot, whatsoever, be held accountable for what happened. Please, don't let that haunt you. 
I hope I was of some help...if you need me, please feel free to PM me. I'm an open ear. 
Hugs, and all my best,
Harley |
Yes Harley....my brother was 7 years older than me. I say was cause I have not seen/spoken to him in about 15 years, and as far as I am concerned he is dead to me. I know deep down in my heart that whatever happened is not my fault, but I cannot help but feel shame and hatred towards my self.
Hugs
1970sbaby