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Old Feb 17, 2013, 01:21 AM
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Oh noes!
 
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Originally Posted by My kids are cool View Post
Well, I initially was crabby because it was snowing and I could not ride my horse. Then, found out that someone I love, who swore they were not going to drink anymore, is going to an activity that involves alcohol. Also, I spent a LOT of time drafting what I thought was a really thoughtful message to someone, trying hard to be helpful because this is a problem that has come up for this person over and over. So I spent a lot of time thinking about and drafting this message. I got a reply back just saying that they didn't agree and they want what they want from this other person, without any regard for what the other person thinks or wants, although they also admit that this is a problem that comes up REPEATEDLY. So, that kind of attitude that completely disregards the other person's feelings, and what the person is willing to give, really upsets me. I should not let it, but it does. It's not that person I was writing the message to disagreed with me that was upsetting. It was the attitude of 'I am entitled to what I want regardless of how it affects others.' Sorry for being so crabby.
That's the type of situation where my T would tell me to walk away, for my own sanity. I bet yours would too. Remember, your first priority is to take care of yourself.
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granite1
Thanks for this!
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