these people have made me cry on numerous occasions and the fact that they haven't hit rock bottom yet is pissing me off. One time I accused one of them of doing something that they didn't and now I feel like I'm experiencing all the consequences of my actions. People do crazy **** to me and expect to be forgiven or have their deeds forgotten. But it's not okay with me because they need to learn to take some responsibilities for their own actions. they need to know that what they do can affect a person. let's say someone killed themselves because of all the rejection that they had to deal with. Whose fault is that? certainly not the victim, but the one who had been hurting him/her. this person deserves punishment.