Hi Seeking! It doesn't sound to me like you have the problem at all. It sounds like you've moved with him wherever he's wanted to go. If that's not being supportive, what is? You sound like an iltelligent, capable woman. You don't deserve to be belittled. This situation sounds aweful for the kids. Alcohol won't give you solutions. It will do the complete opposite. Try to step back and look at the situation. Ask yourself what you need. Try to find your center again. I'm sorry you're going through a difficult time. You'll get through it. It can be very challenging when living with someone depressed to not get sucked into their stuff, espcially when they're trying so hard to do just that. My thoughts will be with you! Good luck!