Bad. I asked new guy to please leave yesterday. We spent Fri night through Sat aft together. I asked him to please give me some space to think. And ponder. I dont want to overthink things, and if I hadnt been through everything I have been through, I might have glossed over it. But this situation...his situation is testing my boundaries of what I find safe and acceptable for me.

Will explain more in my " new guy" thread... although I already know what you will say. That is why I am very sad. And struggling internally. AND IT IS A NO BRAINER.