They successfully did the sabbatoge against our beginning (me and Lar) Against all odds their work worked. We aren't together.

After endlessly announcing me "the thirteenth stepper is here" at meetings of recovery where me and Lar were -these were several. After saying aloud in meetings that someone present was too jelous of them going out with "a guy that one of us knew about" When I had no idea that "anyone was getting cheated on much less cheating- how could "I " be called jelous?

I ended up having a nervous manic breakdown at his house due to added mania from since July 24th when everyone started tearing into both of us publicly at Meetings.
Than He-Lar announced to everyone privately-I was looney-and he didn't know how to stand me-these same people that were "calling me jelious" I can do the math. No one was jelous, someone went crazy for only one night, and Lar went to the mental ward for 2 days after all was over.

Two or more others from the support group successfully stopped a good thing that if left alone would have worked. There it is.