... why not make your own chat room? You can make it private and talk how you all agree to talk in there, and not let anyone in who complains? Be sure you aren't hanging out in the lobby too...many members do that and it's just a place to land when you go into the chat area, and not for conversation so no one gets triggered or insulted or feels left out etc... go into lobby and move on to a chat room.

Well, just because the censor works, or doesn't, doesn't mean we aren't all responsible for our words whether in a hidden form like initials or &$#@* symbols.

It's never easy to be reprimanded, and to be dressed down really hits our egoes... but toughen up and figure out a way to stick around and keep the rules?

I've often suggested to a newcomer to make a private chat room and go experiment with the attributes of chat... that includes typing all the cuss words you wish, to see which are censored as really bad, and which ones might slip through and you have to be more cautious in typing.