My t asks why and wants to talk about it. At least the last three weeks since I have been cutting lately. On that note I should mention that one time I was cutting several times a week I was scolded and told that it isn't acceptable.

There are times I can go for 6 weeks without self harming and then am at it again. Sometimes I don't know what reaction I will get from my t, it could be what I perceive as anger or someone that is trying to understand why.