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Originally Posted by hankster
So you always have to agree with the other person? (Or they with you?) I thought the point was knowing that you are never going to agree, and how to get along without feeling like you have to give in all the time. Or just be alone. Am I carrying this too far?
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Excessive agreement is not something I have any experience of! I am naturally argumentative.
But I've managed to achieve some kind of compromise with my wife, my boss, my friends, previous therapists and even my brother. No persistent power struggles there.
I have had this problem with my mother, one landlady and two previous bosses. People who didn't give me a long enough leash.
Thinks... I've
always been in a power struggle with
one person. Do I need an enemy? But I certainly don't
want T to be my enemy, so what's going on?