My family always disagrees with me. They even disagree with me on whether or not they always disagree with me. They are gamblers, they always have to win. As Anne 2.0 pointed out, I am always taking the boys' side here, which doesn't exactly endear me to the women. Plus I don't know any men who appreciate my defense or support! Anyway, saying no automatically has become a habit I picked up from the FOO. I'm trying to break it with Ts help.