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Originally Posted by nothingtolivefor
I want throw out a caution.
Have you ever been angry at your T?
Revelations have a way of making you feel insecure at those times.
Since this is a dominace submissive relational dynamic. It can transfer over intp the therapeutic relationship and cause trust issues.
But hey, if you're ok with it...go for it.
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While I do think the T/client relationship relies on a very delicate power balance b/w T and client, I don't think this is what is going on in this situation. It really is just a matter of me being embarrassed to disclose something to her and therefore not being honest about it.
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Originally Posted by Nightlight
Since your T was asking in such a non judgmental way, you could always tell her that she's fantastically intuitive sometimes, and that you've never lied to her before so you wanted to correct something. She asked a question that you weren't ready to discuss and it caught you off guard and so you denied it, but you still don't feel ready to say anything further about it. You just wanted to make sure you hadn't been dishonest with her, and you could leave it at that.
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Hi nightlight. Thanks for this, you took the words right out of my mouth.
