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Old Feb 17, 2013, 07:23 PM
allimsaying allimsaying is offline
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I hear where youre coming from. You want your life to have value and you believe it does not. For the sake of your point lets just go with your statement as if it is true. If it is true that you have no value, is it also true that nothing in your life has value? What about your family or a pet or your community? Are all of those without value in your view? What about firemen, EMTs, hospitals, nurses? Do they have any value?

What Im trying to get at is that value is a thing we attach to people and objects in our lives. So even tho you may not attach value to yourself, in this moment, at this time, can you at least agree that some things in life do have value?

When you can find that there is value in life you can then begin to see the things that matter to you and have significance. With that feeling can come a sense of direction, for example, desiring to spend more time in the activities you believe to be valuable. You might want to become an EMT, a doctor, an artist, a musician. If you cant become these things then you are still able to appreciate them, adding a sense of goodness and value to your world.

I dont know if this will help at all but I hope you will at least think it over. Values change, people change. The best you can do is be open to what good there is. It can never enter if you shut it out.