I don't think counseling would help. It's not a communication problem. She know what she needs to do. She got a degree that she couldn't get a job with. She started to work on something else. She started reading a book on what I used to do. Drafting, drawing building plans. I was also giving her lessons. We went and took some certification tests on it in December, but she failed. We were supposed to go back in January but we haven't yet. I'm not sure what to do. All I can do it voice my concerns and tell her what is going on financially, and what the consequences are if she doesn't pay her school loan. I can't force her to work or care about the bills for that matter. I'm not mad enough to want to leave her over it. I'm just not sure what to do about it.