Im not paying her loans. When I bring it up it turns into an argument with the result her saying she knows she needs to pay them. I don't know how much she owes or what her payments should be. The last bill i saw was like 70k her loans. I don't have the money to pay them even if i wanted. After i pay all the bills there iant much left over, certainly not $1,000. She had the loans on deferement for a while, but i dont know what is going on now.

I know it affects both of us and I should know, but I don't.