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Old Feb 17, 2013, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
You know, it's not like Photoshop, it's real flesh and blood. mIstakes can be made. Unless you're badly lopsided or have physical pain, I wouldn't rush into it. A minimizer bra will take you down a little. It sounds like you just lost weight? I understand it takes at least 6 months after you stop losing until you end up at your final shape, because you lose weight from the top down (why your face will look skinny fast) but you redistribute from the bottom up - why my legs take so long to slim! Also I would try to work this out in therapy. It is a big deal in our society and horrible not to be happy with our given attributes, whatever they are. Cuz sometimes you can't change things.
Yes, I am actually going to talk to a counselor. But the overall shape of my chest should be fixed, not even just the size alone, and I find nothing wrong with this... but the self-esteem issues I'm going to counseling for.
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